Oh the dark feminine is coming through thick and fast over here... I thought I'd give some insight into what She feels like from a "showing up online for your business" perspective.
All of us have the dark feminine within our core energy streams to some degree, only one (dark or light) feels like more of an internal Truth than the other (and nothing is "wrong" and no one is "better than the other: both are whole).
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The dark feminine is not interested in being an inspiration or a beacon.
When she stands outside of her alignment she looks at light-feminine-tending womxn on Instagram profiles and Facebook pages and wonders:
"How can I shape myself to look like her?"
"Could I just lay on the beach and bring the internet to its knees?"
"How can I inspire the nation? I’m not sure I have that energetic power within me."
The dark feminine's super power on social media is intrigue, invitation, depth, and often "don't give a fuck-ness."
She can feel like a non-chalant cat who's deep in the underworld of her thoughts.
She lives her fearlessness, because she has to: she is in the dark, navigating the dark at all times, because the dark is the core of who she is.
Social media can have her stretching outside of herself to BE the light, when in reality all that her soul longs to do is lead the world through the dark.
To find beauty in the dark.
To find fertile soil that she can sink her being into and say to others – particularly other womxn – "Look! See! The freedom that you crave is here in the depths of the Earth, and inside yourself!"
If she's the more motherly sort she will be in her power through story telling and deep empathy, she'll "go there" with you because, in some respects, she's always "there."
Womxn in the dark feminine will often be called to shadow work, to holding sacred space for tears to fall, for emotions to move, for the resonant frequencies of the sacral, root and feet in particular to come alive.
She invites in beingness and richness over lightness and "freedom from ties."
In some ways, ties help her feel anchored to the shoreline of herself: anchored to earth, to the elements, to her carefully honed processes of "moving through", to her anima (spirit animals, spites, elementals and other beings who she senses support her moreso than angelic beings).
The invitation here is to release yourself to explore what’s True for you because, when you do, your expression takes on a whole new frequency when showing up online.
The clients that would work with you taste the realness within you.
When marketers tell you to "do what makes people know, like, and trust you” it'll make you laugh (you need to TELL me to do that? Pfft)
The dark feminine has been hidden from sight for a long time.
(The feminine in general has but the light feminine has been infinitely more “palatable” as She began her emergence some time ago.)
And now it is time to invite in All of Her.
It’s nothing to do with physical anatomy, skin colour, culture, upbringing as the dark feminine is a PURE ENERGY STREAM FROM SOURCE expressing Herself into this reality AND to a greater or lesser degree She is a part of you.
What will she look like when she comes out of you?
It'll be a tone...
She feels damp, rich, heavy, embodied through all her core energy centres, expressed through the truth of her stories which are told without fear or judgement, and are held with integration and ownership.
At her core she is strong, even in her softness.
She embraces and soothes without needing to say words.
Visually/Tonally think:-
Depth
Nowness
Rich
Juicy
Raw
Den-like
A warm + enclosed, yet open + available womb-space
Light play
Silence in captive states
Storytelling that feeds the soul
Humanity that feels divine
Highlighting and validating the mystery, beauty, pain, glory and delight of the unconscious.
Sarcasm, humour, word play, irony (the dark feminine MUST lighten the load; she can't take herself too seriously).
For some, those True Beacons of the light feminine, this message won’t resonate inside the body at all...
But for those who feel the emergence of the dark feminine it will feel like a battle cry to speak the Truth and reality of your dark feminine into the world.
This is your invitation to explore the truth of your inner dark feminine.
**Let me know in the comments BTW if you're interested in hearing the light-feminine perspective when it comes from showing up online.**